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Old 07-23-2010, 10:01 PM
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Can someone give me tips on direct gaming during the day. Things to say, body language, ways to approach, energy, ect-whatever comes to mind. What I especially need help with is approaching a girl when she is walking in the opposite direction of me, and there is whole crowd around her, especially during happy hour. Any help is appreciated.
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Old 07-28-2010, 12:09 AM
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I'd like help with this too.

Know what you want BEFORE you approach. Although I see attractive women all day, there are very few of these that spark my genuine curiosity. Of those that do, when I go direct with them, there's been instant connection of some kind. Sometimes no words are exchanged at all. I need to work on where I am interrupting these situations with my anxiety and continue riding the wave to wherever it leads.

Who do you want? What kind of woman makes your heart go pitter-patter? It's confusing from your post whether you're addressing a daytime or nighttime situation, but it might not matter so much. I would say if it's daytime and she's moving, lightly take hold of her arm and stop her physically. Face her head on with your whole body, not at an angle. Let your turn-on wash over you but at the same time give her permission, in your mind, to reject you.

If it's a nighttime venue and it's late, make eye contact, and if she returns your gaze, simply take her by the hand and claim her. Lead her over to your table and tell her what you're feeling in your body. If she won't come, LET HER GO.

Let us know how it goes. Maybe I'll try this myself and write it up.
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Old 07-29-2010, 11:22 PM
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Im doing day game. You are right I have to know what I want beforehand. I just need a basic plan of attack and I ll start approaching from every direction at every hottie. Sure when I see a girl Im truly attracted to thats the one I go for and I usually find it easier doing it that way. However, Im going for lots of approaches just to learn which is the important thing. Apprecite your feedback and any that might come along guys.
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Old 08-02-2010, 07:38 PM
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i'd also like some feedback on direct game in the day time. How does this work? I work in midtown manhattan so it's prime to game when i'm at lunch or coming home from work.
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Old 08-30-2010, 08:39 PM
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As a point of reference, have you checked out Eric Disco's stuff or Souls?
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